We believe in the power of sharing ideas and experiences to change perceptions around female sexuality. From self-confidence to self-love, Tantra to kink, emotional journeys to nuts-and-bolts, we’ve got it covered.Whether you want to chat with friends or just sit back to listen and learn, our events provide a safe and confidential space where every woman can speak authentically, share experiences and inspiration.


Thrash out the toughest topics at our
panel debates

Network with the changemakers at our
FIERCE talks

Talk it out in our
Members-only Coaching Sessions

Relax with a drink at our weekly
members’ night

Push your own boundaries at our
x-rated members’ outings

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How we’re using the power of words to banish stigma and shame