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Helping A Male Partner Struggling With Sexual Dysfunction

Sexual dysfunctions are invisible to those other than the people struggling with them, and their partners. But the additional distress is because we don’t know how to deal with or communicate about these difficulties. So often conflict or problems between a couple can arise as they just can’t find the language to explain what’s going …

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My findings on why men are excited about threesome with two women

In my experience in the BDSM and kink communities, it is not uncommon for heterosexual men to be happy to connect with bisexual women though they don’t want any other men around.  Many non-monogamous men have this one penis policy as well. They want to be the only person with a penis in their relationships. …

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5 Things (Vanilla) Straight Girls Can Learn from Their LGBTQ and Kinky Sisters

We have lots in common with each other, we are sisters after all.  But some years ago I realised that I don’t go about relationships, dating and sex in quite the same way as my vanilla heterosexual sisters.  I tried to work out how much of the difference was because of kink, how much was …

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Attachment styles – What they can teach us about relationships

Attachment is a deep and enduring emotional bond that connects one person to another across time and space – Ainsworth, 1973, Bowlby 1969 But how does this impact our relationships? When we understand people according to their attachment styles, we can understand a lot more about them and how they operate within relationships. These attachment …

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