#Introducing #TalkSexChangeLives

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Talk Sex. Change Lives. New research from Scarlet Ladies, the UK’s leading community of sex-positive women, reveals that sexuality is a big deal for women in the UK: regardless of age, sexuality or relationship status. What’s more, we’ve discovered that the more we talk openly about sex, the more likely we are to feel empowered …

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How dick pics can be hot!

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My friend, the fabulous erotic writer Hannah Lockhardt, recently wrote a post about dick pics. It included the line: ‘the hottest seven word sentence in the English language is “This is what you do to me”’, and I don’t think I have ever read anything so true, for me at least! Dick pics have had …

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The Secret Art of Penis Massage – Take Home Skills

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Tuesday 12th September at 23 Paul Street and 18 women are huddled around a circle of pink, green and blue dildos, it’s really just another normal evening for us. Grounding us into the room is sexological bodyworker, Jessica Parker. Sat on sofas, eyes shut and three deep breaths later, we’ve left our days behind and …

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The Review: Defeating the Binary: Sex, Gender and Society

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On Wednesday 5th September, we were joined by our brilliant panel, to discuss binary, gender fluidity and patriarchy. Our three panellists were managed by Alyssa Black, a transgender woman and previous facilitator for us here at Scarlet Ladies. She was in good company with Lana, Meredith and Yael. As if we didn’t already know that …

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My story with Vaginismus

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There were fairy lights twisted around the bedhead and he was gently kissing my neck. When I imagined this moment, I had always felt a twist of fear in my gut. But any apprehension about my body, my stretch marks, my wobbly thighs had faded as we kissed each other greedily, our hands moving to …

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Juno Roche, author of ‘Queer Sex’

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“I’m from South London, and I come from a very ordinary South London family; my dad is from Bethnal Green originally – so I suppose you could call him a cockney! – and my mum is from East Dulwich. Yes, so a very straightforward, and very working class, kind of childhood. We had a really …

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Key lessons I learnt at Scarlet Self: Freedom from Shame PART II

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 Missed an event? Our member reviews give you the low down on select events. There are a lot of great takeaways from Scarlet Self: Finding Your Sexual Freedom, Part 1: Freedom from Shame. I find that the more I think about the questions Sarah posed us during the workshop, the more I realise how deeply …

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Key lessons I learnt at Scarlet Self: Freedom from Shame PART I

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For a long time I have felt that I could benefit from some counselling. My self-esteem is not as good as it could by (by far!) and I sometimes feel I am not living my best life. But going from occasionally thinking “I could do with some counselling” to actually seeking out such counselling is …

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Why I kept faking orgasms… despite being in pain

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Sometime after my second child was born, my endometriosis, which had lain in slumber after surgery and two successful pregnancies, came back. Unbeknownst to me at the time, I had also developed adenomyosis, a painful condition with growths in the uterus lining which makes it hard for the uterus to contract. Both these conditions caused …

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The truth about sex toys

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Do you ever have a moment when you realise that the world you’re living in is completely out of step with the people around you? That your simple and most valued truths are somehow seen as astonishing by people you’d thought were the same as you? Even with the most trivial topics, these divides can …

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