Juno Roche, author of ‘Queer Sex’

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“I’m from South London, and I come from a very ordinary South London family; my dad is from Bethnal Green originally – so I suppose you could call him a cockney! – and my mum is from East Dulwich. Yes, so a very straightforward, and very working class, kind of childhood. We had a really …

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Ky Hoyle, Managing Director, Sh! Women’s Erotic Emporium

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[Latest Update: 13th September 2018] “I come from a small town, near Leeds, on the edge of the Yorkshire Dales and famous for its moors. I grew up with a lot of freedom. From around the age of 7, me and my brother were let out alone, to roam, play and explore… My up-bringing was …

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Sandra Talks self love, intimacy and pleasure

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  Scarlet Ladies Talks to … #ITalkSex edition interview series is where we follow up with #ITalkSex ambassadors. We talk life, work and sex in our ultra-personal blog series: the most sex-positive women out there invite us beyond the bedroom door to share the stories of what shaped their journeys to discover and embrace their …

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How dick pics can be hot!

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My friend, the fabulous erotic writer Hannah Lockhardt, recently wrote a post about dick pics. It included the line: ‘the hottest seven word sentence in the English language is “This is what you do to me”’, and I don’t think I have ever read anything so true, for me at least! Dick pics have had …

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My story with Vaginismus

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There were fairy lights twisted around the bedhead and he was gently kissing my neck. When I imagined this moment, I had always felt a twist of fear in my gut. But any apprehension about my body, my stretch marks, my wobbly thighs had faded as we kissed each other greedily, our hands moving to …

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Juno Roche, author of ‘Queer Sex’

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“I’m from South London, and I come from a very ordinary South London family; my dad is from Bethnal Green originally – so I suppose you could call him a cockney! – and my mum is from East Dulwich. Yes, so a very straightforward, and very working class, kind of childhood. We had a really …

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Key lessons I learnt at Scarlet Self: Freedom from Shame PART I

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For a long time I have felt that I could benefit from some counselling. My self-esteem is not as good as it could by (by far!) and I sometimes feel I am not living my best life. But going from occasionally thinking “I could do with some counselling” to actually seeking out such counselling is …

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Why I kept faking orgasms… despite being in pain

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Sometime after my second child was born, my endometriosis, which had lain in slumber after surgery and two successful pregnancies, came back. Unbeknownst to me at the time, I had also developed adenomyosis, a painful condition with growths in the uterus lining which makes it hard for the uterus to contract. Both these conditions caused …

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The truth about sex toys

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Do you ever have a moment when you realise that the world you’re living in is completely out of step with the people around you? That your simple and most valued truths are somehow seen as astonishing by people you’d thought were the same as you? Even with the most trivial topics, these divides can …

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Ky Hoyle, Managing Director, Sh! Women’s Erotic Emporium

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[Latest Update: 13th September 2018] “I come from a small town, near Leeds, on the edge of the Yorkshire Dales and famous for its moors. I grew up with a lot of freedom. From around the age of 7, me and my brother were let out alone, to roam, play and explore… My up-bringing was …

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Talking About Abuse is Both Sex-Positive and Feminist

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[TW: this post discusses trauma and intimate partner abuse] I’m Amy, and I am a survivor of abuse. I won’t be getting into the gory details but, in order for this piece to make sense, sharing a bit of background is necessary in order to set the scene. I was sexually abused by my first …

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Romantic movies vs. real life relationships!

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Men have a hard time dealing with rejection – just ask any woman. Or Google the instances of violence perpetrated by men against women who reject them. The high school shooting in Santa Fe in the US in May happened allegedly because a boy couldn’t accept that a girl had said “no” to him. The …

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Sandra Talks self love, intimacy and pleasure

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  Scarlet Ladies Talks to … #ITalkSex edition interview series is where we follow up with #ITalkSex ambassadors. We talk life, work and sex in our ultra-personal blog series: the most sex-positive women out there invite us beyond the bedroom door to share the stories of what shaped their journeys to discover and embrace their …

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