Dr Lori Beth Bisbey

Dr Lori Beth Bisbey is a registered psychologist, sex & intimacy coach, professional speaker and published author.  She has been working with individuals, couples and polyamorous groups for over 30 years to help them create and maintain their ideal intimate relationships.  She writes non-fiction about sex, sexuality, gender, relationships of all kinds, kink, non-monogamy, BDSM and authority transfer based relationships and sexual trauma in her own blog, for a variety of relationship websites, and for a number of print publications.   She also writes erotic short stories.

My findings on why men are excited about threesome with two women

In my experience in the BDSM and kink communities, it is not uncommon for heterosexual men to be happy to connect with bisexual women though they don’t want any other men around.  Many non-monogamous men have this one penis policy as well. They want to be the only person with a penis in their relationships. …

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5 Things (Vanilla) Straight Girls Can Learn from Their LGBTQ and Kinky Sisters

We have lots in common with each other, we are sisters after all.  But some years ago I realised that I don’t go about relationships, dating and sex in quite the same way as my vanilla heterosexual sisters.  I tried to work out how much of the difference was because of kink, how much was …

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SMART Goals to bring Sexual Excitement into Your Life in 2019

As a sex and intimacy coach and relationship therapist, I encourage clients to create goals and plans that will help them to make their relationships more satisfying, more rewarding and bring more joy in the coming year.   It doesn’t matter if you are in a relationship or on your own, sexual excitement is available for …

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